Sex with the ex....
You read that correctly. Who’s guilty? I won’t judge you if you do. I’m guilty myself on this same crime. Me and my kids father still sleep together from time to time. We are not in a relationship and been this way for three years now but every now and then I would send that late night text.
See we are awesome at co-parenting and get along great. We was together for ten years with two kids in our early 20’s. Sometimes in a relationship you gotta face facts and know that it’s better apart then together that’s for sure. This stage in our journey was far from reality when we called it quits. Just recently ( about 4 months ) we just decided why not. We just call when we need some. I’m not the type of women to just be out here sleeping with Mark, Jason and Brandon. I’m dating but that’s it just dating.
We had the talk, know our place, know the terms etc etc. I will never apologize nor feel bad for my decision. I don’t hate the man and we do have amazing sex. I don’t expect anything to happen from this. Just great sex and conversation about the kids before or after depending on how much time we have alone. We prefer to meet at my place when the kids are asleep. Although it’s his kids we both agreed being seen together to much might confuse the kids.
I am not the only one doing this and its actually pretty normal. I lot of women out here our doing this. For me its because I don’t want to just sleep with anybody and i already know what to expect from him and it has even improved our relationship with each other. Since we don’t have that title or responsibility towards each other it’s less pressure. It just works for us.
If this is an option for you try it out. Why not? Who’s going to tell you no? Many may judge but we both know we really don’t care. This is just my situation. Nothing special.
Let me know what you guys think. Is it wrong to still sleep with your ex? If you have been down this road before did it hurt or help the situation?